this fellow

The Eldredge Knot.

Fri, 25 May 2012 12:59:40 -0400

Outfit Details:
Button-up: c/o Fischer Clothing
Tie: Vintage
Vest: Vintage
Pants: H&M
Belt: Perry Ellis
Tie Bar: Rugby by Ralph Lauren.

Not only am I crazy about ties, I’m crazy about knots. Learning new knots is something I do to spice up an everyday winner. Being a guy, we get away with being able to dress up a collection of probably 5-10 shirts, 2-3 pairs of pants, a blazer, a vest or two and some nice shoes. Little things like a proper collection of bow ties or some good knots really open up the doors to somebody’s sight and perhaps even their respect. When I’m at work, conversations will go from “Hey that’s a good drink you made me,” to, “Wait. What kind of knot is that?”
A good knot is something anybody can do, and it’ll allow you to modestly stand a step higher than the rest.

Best,
Bobby

These Arms Of Mine.

Mon, 16 Apr 2012 09:59:25 -0400

Outfit Details:
Glasses: c/o Tumbleweeds
Sweater Vest: Jack Spade
Button-up: Thrifted
Pants: Levi’s
Shoes: Ralph Lauren

Best,
Bobby

Thank You, Louise.

Sun, 15 Apr 2012 09:31:47 -0400

Outfit Details:
Glasses: Ray Ban
Shirt: H&M
Denim Jacket: Levi’s
Jeans: Hudson Denim

Best,
Bobby

Can't Help Falling In Love.

Sat, 14 Apr 2012 09:50:11 -0400

Outfit Details:
Beanie: Target
Button-up: Perry Ellis
Denim Jacket: Levi’s
Pants: Hudson Denim
Shoes: Zara

Best,
Bobby

A Change Is Gonna Come

Fri, 13 Apr 2012 17:16:00 -0400

Outfit Details:
Bow Tie: Campia Moda
Glasses: Bon Look
Shirt: c/o Fischer Clothing.
Belt: H&M
Pants: c/o Chaps
Shoes: Ralph Lauren

Sam Cooke has been ringing in my ears, as the warmth of the season is crawling over the chill of the long winter months. His music just makes the Spring time feel lighter. Let’s be real, I know it’s April, but sometimes it gets chilly here in Brooklyn.
So, to mark one particularly beautiful, sunny day, Keiko and I went out to Prospect Park and snapped a few pictures.
Find your Springtime song, let it roll and enjoy these beautiful days with a bow tie, a button-up and a partner by your side.

This is actually a continuation from the last series of pictures in Let’s Make a Menu, when our friend Christine came over. I cooked up a big dinner for the three of us and instragramed some nice pictures of the final products.
You can follow my twitter and instragram to find other photographs, too (@ThisFellow).

Best,
Bobby

Let's Make A Menu.

Wed, 11 Apr 2012 01:22:00 -0400

Outfit Details:
Shirt: c/o Fischer Clothing
Bow Tie: Campia Moda
Glasses: Bon Look
Pants: c/o Chaps
Shoes: Ralph Lauren

Disappear With The Night.

Fri, 23 Mar 2012 03:15:05 -0400

Outfit Details:
Button-Up: H&M
Vest: Incorporated By Operations
Bow Tie: Hatchery by Pierrepont Hicks
Glasses: c/o Bon Look
Pants: c/o Hudson Jeans
Shoes: Zara

This was just a nice, simple day to dress up and admire to weather.
I’m looking forward to Spring, but I’ll always have a soft spot for the dry, weathered looks of the fall and winter.

Best,
Bobby

This Is Sparta

Sun, 05 Feb 2012 22:47:31 -0500

Outfit Details:
Mud
Dirt
Sweat
Blood

So, as some of you know, I’ve been really involved lately with training for the SoCal Super Spartan Race that just passed. It was the first race of the year, held in Temecula, California, and it was incredible. The weather was perfect, ranging around the steady mid-upper 70s, without a cloud in sight. The dry desert wasn’t too bad because of the nice, cool breeze that came across the hilltops.
My friends, Markus (#2758) and Jeffery (#2421) competed with me. This was my first race but they compete fairly regularly between any Spartan events and Tough Mudder events.
Markus was a beast and ended up placing 19th overall, in the entire race, with a time around 1 hour and 55 minutes. I had placed 13th overall in my age division (24-29) and around 80th overall in the race, which had over 2000 people, with a time around 2 hours and 6 minutes. Shows how tight the race was! With only an 11 minute difference, Markus killed me in placement.
Jeffery was having trouble from the beginning, having not trained as much as he would have liked and feeling off from the start. He crossed the line later than we did, but he was still a Spartan, finishing with the rest of the crowd.
The training for my race really opened my eyes and made me realize how much I love exercising and working towards a goal, like a race. I’ve made it my 2012 goal to enter and compete in as many Spartan, or of the sort, races this year, that I can. My goal from these experiences will be gaining the knowledge, experience and strength to compete in the 2013 Spartan Death Race and the World’s Toughest Mudder, possibly sneaking the Scotland Coast-To-Coast in there, if I can!
Wish me luck, because 2012 will be my best year yet.

Best,
Bobby

Shallow Means, Deep Ends.

Fri, 03 Feb 2012 10:00:05 -0500

Outfit Details:
Letterman Jacket: Brooklyn Circus
Shirt: H&M
Jeans: Levis
Beanie: Target

Quick Picks and pictures.

Thu, 02 Feb 2012 10:00:05 -0500

I finally joined the iPhone revolution and fell in love with the Instragram app. You can follow my photos and my twitter at @thisfellow.

Best,
Bobby

Lookout Hill

Wed, 01 Feb 2012 13:49:20 -0500

Outfit Details:
Jacket: Robert Gellar
Button-Up: H&M
Bow Tie: Jean&James
Pants: H&M
Shoes: Zara
Glasses: Urban Outfitters

This was one of the last sets of photographs Keiko had taken before I took my big trip to Los Angeles. I was participating in the SoCal Super Spartan, an 8.5 mile, 20+ obstacle race that took place in Temecula - one of the hilliest places I’ve ever seen, let alone run through.
My friend Paul and I train every week at Lookout Hill in Prospect Park for such races. I cannot wait to enter another Spartan Race.
Now that I’m back, it’s back to the hard training, back to the regimental, health-conscious dieting because I will be in my peak physical care for the following races, and eventually the dreaded Spartan Death Race, which takes place in Vermont. 45 miles of horrible weather, obstacles, and 75 pound backpacks, all taking more than two days to complete. Here comes an entire year of bettering myself, and pushing the limits of my potential.
Perhaps I’ll post some of the photographs from the SoCal Super Spartan race, when they’re available. Until then, please appreciate the greatness of a bow tie, the simplicity of shoes and the effect a simple pair of glasses deliver.

Best,
Bobby

Freddie Freeloader.

Thu, 26 Jan 2012 10:00:05 -0500

Outfit Details:
Pea Coat: H&M
Cardigan: H&M
Vest: All Saints
Button-up: H&M
Bow Tie: c/o Jean&James
Pants: Forever 21
Shoes: Aldo

Jean&James, a boutique tie company, was kind enough to send me a couple bow ties of my choosing! I felt that it would be best to split up the looks, since each had its own feel.

Better Late Than Never.

Wed, 25 Jan 2012 10:00:06 -0500

This is something I should have scanned and posted, perhaps a month ago, but, what can you do?
I was recently in the December issue of Inked Magazine, for their “Ink on the Street” section of the magazine. In the issue I was asked which tattoo was my favorite - an unfair and difficult question, since I really have a strong connection with so many of my tattoos. I chose to mention my Matryoshka tattoo that Ashley Love gave me. She’s such a killer tattoo artist. I really need to get more work done by her.
I had an incredible time working with the crew, who were all excited and ambitious to make this a great issue. I would love to work with them again one day.
The winter coat was provided by Alpha Industries, and it was really warm, which makes everything cozy and fun.
That being said, I’m ready to wear t-shirts again. Maybe shorts - not sure how I feel about them yet.

Best,
Bobby

Ashley Love

A Picture of You, Holding A Picture of Me.

Tue, 24 Jan 2012 00:26:47 -0500

Outfit Details:
Pea Coat: H&M
Button-up: H&M
Bow Tie: J Crew
Cardigan: H&M
Pants: H&M
Shoes: Not H&M. Aldo.

Tis the season to wear your bow ties and wear them with pride. I recently went through my tie box and realized that I have, perhaps, more ties and bow ties than I do shirts to wear them with! What can I say? I have an unhealthy obsession with anything tie-related. I recently read a wonderful quote on a card from Jean&James ties.
Paraphrasing it reads:
“A gentleman should bow the ties on his neck as often as he bows the laces on his shoes.”
I couldn’t agree more. I still need practice! With the bow tie, not my shoes.

Best,
Bobby

Last Known Surroundings

Thu, 12 Jan 2012 22:39:03 -0500

Outfit Details:
Scarf: Zara
Sun Glasses: c/o David Yurman
Denim Jacket: Levi’s
Shirt: H&M
Pants: Hudson Denim
Shoes: Saucony

I think the time spent happiest for me is when I’m at a park. Keiko and I spent some time at Fort Greene Park and it was just a beautiful day. I’m looking forward to more days like this.

Best,
Bobby

For The Home Team

Wed, 07 Dec 2011 20:08:48 -0500

Outfit Details:
Letterman Jacket: The Brooklyn Circus.
Shirt: H&M
Vest: All Saints
Tie: Thrifted
Pants: Hudson Jeans
Shoes: Aldo

Keiko and I finally made it out to this really great store in Brooklyn. We’ve driven past it dozens of times, always saying that we’ll stop in next time. The Brooklyn Circus was a real gold mine for men’s wear; and let’s face it, it’s hard to find things for guys to wear sometimes.
After walking around for a while, I finally decided on the Letterman Jacket (with Keiko’s help, of course). I can certainly say I’ll be back to visit them sometime soon!

Best,
Bobby

Chinos

Fri, 18 Nov 2011 17:42:07 -0500

Outfit Details:
Coat: Robert Gellar
Vest: c/o Chaps
Shirt: H&M
Tie: UniQlo
Pants: c/o Chaps
Shoes: Aldo

It’s finally becoming winter! I must admit, despite my Floridian background, I have thick skin and warm blood and look forward to the changing weather, the amber to orange leaves, and the brisk wind, dragging the scarf around your neck. I always feel more alive and more inspired in the winter months, and with the necessity of keeping warm, it gives me much more reason to dress-up than the summer does.
Layering is one of those masterful arts that women seem to have. I’ve never been very adept at looking at a jam-packed closet and seeing what I should wear. It’s much more organic. I grab a shirt, pick a pair of pants and see what fits thereafter. A nice tie that works with this vest or that coat, maybe a scarf or a fedora to balance or break-up monotony. In a way, it’s a lot like cooking. And like cooking, everything depends on balance. Less is more, almost always.
With very few basics you can really create a larger wardrobe than many would imagine.
Stay warm, guys.

Best,
Bobby

aWEARness

Fri, 04 Nov 2011 15:45:48 -0400

Outfit Details:
Blazer: Uniqlo (killer deal)
Shirt: H&M
Bowtie: Pierpont Hicks
Vest: All Saints
Pants: c/o Hudson Denim
Belt: Perry Ellis
Shoes: Aldo

Keiko and I were approached about teaming up with Kenneth Cole, MTV’s Staying Alive Foundation and amfAR to spread awareness about AIDS. The frightening reality that it’s been over 30 years and still no cure is shocking, but there are ways to prevent it! Kenneth Cole has designed this new ribbon, with two bows, to symbolize the redoubling of efforts to find a cure, and to symbolize coming together.

You can purchase your own ribbon here and help bring awareness to your community. I encourage everyone to do their part! And for $5, it’s hard to avoid such a great cause.

From the release: The ribbon will be sold through December 31st and 100% of net profits will go to AWEARNESS, the Kenneth Cole Foundation, in support of the MTV Staying Alive Foundation and amfAR, the Foundation for AIDS Research. Kenneth Cole retail and outlet stores all over the world, and www.KennethCole.com will sell the ribbon.

Best,

Bobby

Release The Hounds.

Fri, 28 Oct 2011 17:49:40 -0400

Outfit Details:
Shirt: H&M
Pants: H&M
Tie: Express
Tiebar: c/o Chaps
Sweater: c/o Chaps
Shoes: c/o Chaps
Belt: c/o Chaps

Keiko and I were invited by Chaps for a little fun. She, along with Christine and Aly, were supposed to style the men in their lives. I’m too independent for that, so I sneaked away, while the girls were nibbling on cheese and fruit, and browsed the selection.
While we were home, Miku had a blast, running around the yards, so when we got back, she was still in that “outdoor” state of mind. It was time to take her to the Dog Park!
We got a lot of glances at the dog park. I’d like to think it was my dapper dressing, but, let’s be honest… it was Miku those dogs were checking out.

Best,
Bobby

The Greatest Sandwich, Ever.

Tue, 04 Oct 2011 00:09:47 -0400

Just a brief update, to prove that I’m not dead or missing.

I’ve been trying to stay busy lately. I recently left my job at SoHo House, under good terms, to go to Culinary School. This time off has been good for me, but I needed to work somewhere again, so I went back to bartending. I now work at The Meatball Shop, as one of the bartenders.
The thing I love about the place, aside from the people, ambiance and food, is that they’re so willing to take any creative ideas to the table, and run with them. I spoke to the Chef and asked her if I could make a meatball of my own, bring it in and get it on the menu, if it was up to snuff. So, last night, after buying my own grinder and all, I made my first attempt at my Banh Meatball! Seemed like a fun idea. I was leaving work the other day, stopped off at this great Banh Mi restaurant next door and thought, “Duh, that would be an awesome meatball!” So far, I’ve had some positive responses to it. Great heat, good flavor, fun idea and easy to make - who wouldn’t love this thing, if you ate meat? But a ball on its own isn’t enough, so I made a cilantro-ssiracha aioli with bread-and-butter pickled carrots. Now it’s ready. One bite with all the fixin’s and it leaves the body wondering where the rest went.

I also wanted to share a couple pictures of a sandwich that I make nearly every single day for me and Keiko. It’s usually the first thing we eat, when we wake up. Simple to fix and fun to make, and it’s just freaking delicious, too. It’s quite simply “The Greatest Sandwich Ever,” adapted from Thomas Keller. Aside from the Banh Mi, that is.

Ingredients:
Peasant’s Bread (or other, good-quality bread)
1 Egg
Bacon (or veggie bacon, for Keiko)
Red Leaf Lettuce
1 Red, ripe tomato
Mayonnaise
Whole Grain Mustard
Grilled Chicken Breast (Optional - more my thing)
Kosher Salt/Pepper
Extra Virgin Olive Oil

The trick to this sandwich, especially when you make it as often as I do, is to have a system. You want everything to finish at the same time and be hot, without overcooking anything (i.e. The egg).
If you do this right, you should be able to stay busy doing something the entire time, while waiting between cooking, and have your sandwich turn out awesome.

Firstly, preheat your oven to 400. Take your bread, apply a small amount of oil on one side of each slice of bread, enough to cover most of the surface. Sprinkle Kosher salt and pepper on each slice. Place on a baking sheet tray and toast for about 5 minutes and flip over.
While bread is toasting, you can clean and set aside your lettuce leaves, and cut your tomato slices. If you’re cooking bacon, rather than microwaving it, now would be a good time, so you can let it drain on a paper towel, when finished.
When bread has toasted, apply the mayonnaise and whole grain mustard to your slices and dress with lettuce and tomato, bacon, too, if ready.
When you’re done, heat a pan on your burner. You want to let it run on the heat for a good minute or two, without oil, and after it’s hot, add about a teaspoon of olive oil to the pan, just to loosen your egg. Move the pan around to coat the oil to the pan, and be sure to keep it from smoking. When your pan is hot, crack the egg over the center of the pan and let the sucker cook. You want to season generously with Kosher salt and pepper and after about 15-20 seconds, with the flip of the wrist, flip your egg over. Turn off the heat on the burner and let it cook on the hot pan for an additional 30 seconds or so. Enough to cook it, but not to cook the yolk. Slide it off the pan, onto the sandwich and plate it up! Cut on a bias and voila! You’ve just made/eaten the greatest sandwich in the world.
I make mine with grilled chicken, so usually when the bread comes out, I’ll throw my cooked chicken breast in the oven, to warm it up.
I hope that some of you take the time to understand what’s so great about the greatest sandwich ever. It’s pretty great.
If anybody happens to frequent Brooklyn, or Williamsburg, for that matter, bring yourself over to The Meatball Shop. Get some balls, get some booze, say hello and have a great time. I promise, I’ll make it as entertaining as I can. Who knows, you may be there when my meatball makes the menu!

Best,
Bobby